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Doctors Gave Marilyn 6 to 8 Months 26 Years Ago. In Her 70s She Became a Flight Attendant: “I May Not Be the Best Flight Attendant, but I’m Happiest”

By Mike Harper · November 12, 2026

Some people slow down in their 70s. Marilyn Allred of Tulsa put on a uniform and went to work on airplanes.

FOX23 News in Tulsa told her story in a report posted in late December 2022. The station said she had just started that year as a flight attendant, in her 70s, making a dream of hers come true.

“I may not be the best flight attendant, but I’m happiest,” she told the station. She said she tries to greet everyone with a smile, and gets one right back.

Getting there was not easy, and she kept it quiet at first. She told FOX23 she had not been to school in many years and did not know if she would pass training, and she did not want people to know if she failed. The station reported that memorizing 70 acronyms, studying and preparing were overwhelming at times.

“I cried at night because I’m like, what are you doing? But I did it,” she said.

This was not the first hard thing she had pushed through. Marilyn told the station she had inflammatory breast cancer 26 years earlier, at a time when she said the survival rate was 15%. One group of doctors, she said, had “given me 6 to 8 months.” Her answer at the time, as she tells it, was that she was too busy for that and had to be here.

She was. FOX23 reported that she runs when she can, which she counts as one reason she is healthy and strong enough to do the job. The idea to apply came on a flight home from visiting her grandkids, when she noticed two flight attendants around her own age working the cabin.

Now her days take her from mountain views in Denver to the state capitol in Des Moines, Iowa, according to the station. She flies for a regional carrier and is based in Salt Lake City rather than Tulsa, so locals are more likely to find her sitting next to them on a flight to Utah than working their flight. FOX23 said passengers are already telling her they are inspired by her story.

“You’re never too old to live out your dreams,” she said, “and that’s what I’m doing.”

Her cancer history makes the story even more striking. The National Cancer Institute describes inflammatory breast cancer as a rare, fast-growing type that makes up 1% to 5% of breast cancers in the United States. NCI says it tends to have a less favorable outlook than many other breast cancers because it is often found at an advanced stage, and it lists a five-year relative survival rate of 22% for women whose disease has spread to distant parts of the body.

For anyone tempted to follow her into the aisle, the job itself is well defined. According to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, flight attendants typically need a high school diploma or the equivalent, get on-the-job training from their airline and must be certified by the Federal Aviation Administration. BLS put median pay at 63,580 dollars a year in May 2025 and projects about 18,500 openings a year over the next decade. It also notes that schedules include nights, weekends and holidays, and that attendants may be away from home several nights a week.

Airlines set their own hiring standards, so anyone curious should read each carrier’s job posting closely, including the training schedule, base city and physical requirements. Marilyn’s own advice is in the video: she was scared, she cried, and she finished anyway.

This article is for general information and is not medical advice. Details of Marilyn Allred’s health history and career are her account as reported by FOX23 News. This article was produced with the assistance of AI and fact-checked against the sources cited by LightWave Reports.